UNDERSTANDING what men really desire is never easy, since men come in different variations. However, regardless of what category a man falls into, there are things that every man is looking for in a woman. Are you the type of woman that men desire to be with?
Be Real with who you really are, rather than try to be what you think you should be or who you think people want you to be. It is easy to sense a real person from an artificial one and one of the main turn offs for men is a woman who is not herself and gives off a fake vibe.
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price [is] far above rubies. PROVERBS 31:10.
Have Confidence – Nothing is more attractive to a man than a woman who is confident and feels comfortable and happy in her skin. A woman who feels good about herself is a woman most likely with a good head on her shoulders, rational, focused and has good direction in life. If a woman does not have confidence in herself, then a man feels and sees no reason to have confidence in her either and he will not want to invest his time and effort in a woman he will have to baby sit emotionally all the time.
Regaining or boosting your confidence helps to improve your entire life, as well as your general sense of well-being. This is because when you love and accept yourself, this basically spreads like a wild-fire into every aspect of your life!
You can attract others almost effortlessly with your sincere and irresistible aura of feminine confidence.
A woman who’s secure in who she is, who LOVES who she is, as well as how she speaks, acts and interacts, has true confidence – and she’ll be benefited in unimaginable ways!
She’ll also achieve so much more in her life because of her healthy confidence and self-belief.
Did you know that almost everything positive and worthwhile that you currently have is a direct result of your personal levels of self-belief and self-confidence!?
Also, it’s very important that a woman knows her REAL self-worth before she even starts to go on the lookout for a man – or even out on another date! This is because men are only attracted to genuine confidence in a woman.
When you finally learn how to look at yourself in a new healthy and positive way, others will also start to look at you differently!
Express Intellect – Being desirable to a man is not just about having a pretty face or shapely figure. A woman with intelligence is important to and a man wants to be with a woman who will have something to talk about and who will teach him new things, just as he will teach her. Everyone is unique and has their own personal talents and areas of higher intelligence than others- so be sure to express that side of yourself to prove that you do have the whole package- an attractive appearance along with other intellectual surprises. Share your hobbies and share things you have learned through your life experiences.
A foolish woman [is] clamorous: [she is] simple, And knoweth nothing. PROVERBS 9:13.
Be Sweet and Feminine – Okay, today women are more independent and career oriented, but that does not mean we should have to give up and forget our feminine roots. Women are delicate creatures after all- we are sweet and giving and it is important for a man to see these qualities in a woman. It is not weak to show a man that you are sweet and care taking- after all, this is the type of woman a man dreams coming home to- someone who will lovingly welcome him home with a sweet feminine smile and take care of him. Never lose your special feminine roots- show him your sweet and romantic side.
Tell him what you want – It is understandable that you want a man who will treat you beautifully without you having to give him directions- and you should never lower your standards when it comes to this. However, you also have to remember that men cannot read minds and let’s face the fact- women are emotionally unpredictable creatures and are not always easy to read. Men love it when a woman has the strength and confidence to tell him what she wants. Men want to please women, so do not be afraid to open up and let him know what is important to you.
A virtuous woman [is] a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed [is] as rottenness in his bones. PROVERBS 12:4.
Stay Glamorous – This does not mean that you should walk on eggshells and worry about your looks all the time. You should feel secure enough in your relationship to know that even when you do not wear makeup, your man will still adore you and will not look at other women. However, this does not mean you should let yourself go and not care about the things that were once important to you. Relationships usually start going downhill when one or both partners stop caring about the little things.
Glamour is not based on a certain kind of face or body type. The most beautiful face and body can be very unglamorous .Have you ever noticed a stranger across a room who for some reason you just couldn’t take your eyes off …who drew your attention and you weren’t sure why. She wasn’t a “raving beauty” perhaps or she may not have been blessed with “the best body” in the world—but, nonetheless, she was radiantly beautiful—stunning—and she had a look that demanded your attention, in a very positive way.
Love yourself: We spend so much time waiting to be loved, hoping love will find us, searching, yearning for that special love, feeling empty and lost without it. Wanting someone to give us love and fill us up. Unfortunately, that’s not usually how life works. Loving yourself is mainly having self-respect which is the only dependable way to create love in your own life to share with others. When you expect love from an external source, and someone or something does not fulfill your void and fantasies, then you will feel worse than before. To be able to be loved, you must love and respect yourself as much as you do others.
– Janet Funmi Jacob
